Answer for question 4222.
Feb. 3rd, 2015 02:32 pm[Error: unknown template qotd]There are a couple of different levels to this.
Years ago, I started at a new job. One of the young men (late 20s, so much younger than I was) was always well dressed and absolutely physically gorgeous. He was also dumber than a post and had a superior attitude toward his customers. By the end of a fortnight, I didn't find him attractive in the least.
By contrast, I've gotten into conversation with people I found at best mildly attractive, and, by the end of the conversation, they were wildly so. Kindness, intelligence, and wit look great on everyone.
Years ago, I started at a new job. One of the young men (late 20s, so much younger than I was) was always well dressed and absolutely physically gorgeous. He was also dumber than a post and had a superior attitude toward his customers. By the end of a fortnight, I didn't find him attractive in the least.
By contrast, I've gotten into conversation with people I found at best mildly attractive, and, by the end of the conversation, they were wildly so. Kindness, intelligence, and wit look great on everyone.